Wisdom

 Growing up I wished I had grandparents like the rest of my friends.  My parents lost their parents before I was born. At 60, I have had a lot of time to reflect on what was missing because of it.

I feel like a lot of what I learned in my life have come from observing others. When I was young, people thought I was shy since I was pretty quiet. :)

I longed for unconditional love and authentic, shared wisdom from lessons the previous generations had learned along the way. I know it's hard to be open and honest about things, but I was like a sponge ...and I am still that way. I want to be that kind of parent and grandparent. 

Whenever I have the gift of time with older people, I love to ask them their secret to success (especially when it comes to marriage). On our drive to The Masters with Dr. Joseph he answered my question. He said that it comes from the Bible, where two become one. He said that when he lost his wife (of many, many years!) he really feels like he is half the person he was when she was alive. He totally believes in God's plan for marriage. He also talked about how important it is to appreciate what you've got. Appreciate him/her and tell her how much she means to you while you can.  Don't be presumptuous; in your heart realize it. 

He also really appreciates his children. He said that he couldn't live without them literally. 

When we thanked him for his hospitality he said, "The nicest thing you can do for me is come back!" Come on, isn't that the sweetest response? 

I don't take the time spent with a wise person lightly. I can't believe I used to be a little afraid of old people. Now, as I am a little more seasoned, I appreciate any time I get to spend with sweet, loving older people who are willing to share their heart.